Abu al-Dardaa, Awaimer bin Malik al-Ansari Khazraji may Allah be pleased with him, educator of the first generation, the generation of companions, may Allah be pleased with them all, who received the assets of the call and the arts of education directly from the master of educators and Imam preachers peace be upon him.
This great companion passed over a group that had gathered on a man, and they beat him and cursed him. He kissed them and said, "What is the news?" They said: A man who fell into a great sin. He said: "Did you see if it was signed in a well, would you not extract it from him?" They said: Yes. He said: "If you do not insult him and do not hit him, but exhort him and see him, and thank God who helped you to fall into this sin." They said: Do not hit him? He said: "No, but the most hated thing, if left is my brother." And he took the man to weep and declare his repentance.
So be the preacher and educator: attractive not oppressor, merciful not avenger, wise not escape hand and tongue.
This was Dad's father Dardaa with people outside his home, and with his family inside his home. He says to his wife: "If you are angry with me, if you are angry with your satisfaction, then when we are not so, how fast we part."
Al-Dhahabi said in the hadith of the nobles: Roy narrated that Abu Darda said: "If it were not for three things, I would like to stay: the hour of thirst, the prostration in the night, and the assembly of people who choose good speech.
The Prophet (may Allah be pleased with him) went to the Levant after opening it to teach the Qur'an to the people, and to teach it to them in their religion. Muawiyah, may Allah be pleased with him, ruled Damascus. He remained until he died in 32 AH in the succession of Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him).